The Truth About
I wasn't a sexist
before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant.
I grew up watching
Disney cartoons, I believed in romance and "true love conquers
all" etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner.
I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each
other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, "for better
or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer"
etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now
I understand that this was only possible when society was structured
to enforce it. Now that women are "liberated" (and thus at
the mercy of their own emotions and baser instincts) this is mostly
no longer possible in today's society. Victorian society, or many Arab
societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep
women as faithful as possible.
I'd like to point
out that I am not a misogynist...I love women. But I AM a sexist, in
the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according
to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as
I must be a bitter
loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of
the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I
am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy,
well-adjusted, good-looking (8+ on the looks scale) professional women.
(At least as normal and healthy and well-adjusted as women can be -
most women have issues.) But that's not all. I can go out any night
of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her
friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach.) Women will slip me
their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk
to women on the street or in the grocery store and within 30 minutes,
I can usually have sex with them right there in my car or get them back
to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her
on another day, assuming she doesn't flake, I WILL fuck her that next
Let me point out
right now that my Modus Operandi doesn't change in the slightest if
she single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal
routine and I fuck her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she
won't feel guilty when I fuck her because now it's "my fault."
Sometimes she hides it from me until after I've fucked her, then she
admits it. I can't tell you how many times I've been laying next to
some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over
her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her phone rings
and she's on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story.
This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!! The sweetest most innocent girls
you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing
that most men value most - loyalty - is just not there with women. Women
don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;"
women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it,
period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more
meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than (1) the way she feels and
(2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations.
That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo
quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc.
I must be really
good looking, right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I'm maybe a 7. I don't
work out (though I'm not fat or anything.) In fact I didn't have any
success with women until I was in my early 20's. That's when I decided
to go out a lot and start trying to get laid... I was willing to face
rejection a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying
everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside.
I didn't get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and
then. Then pretty often. Then downright consistently! I'm in my early
30's now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn't have even believed
this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined
whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were
poor, women shit all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have
license to be rude bitches in social situations... in fact I understand
and appreciate that behavior now.) But once my skills got good, I could
fuck just about anyone's wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn't
know they had a man until after I fucked them.
Look, I'm not saying
that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. I'm just saying, I've
spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and
I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I hate knowing it. Sometimes
I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole,
because now there's really no going back. I didn't want to believe these
things... but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be
the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not
worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave
your dog alone with a steak? You can't hate the dog for doing what's
in its nature. You can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE
a dog. Some men are disloyal... but I could *never* trust a woman to
be loyal. Some men are bad presidents...but I could *never* vote for
a woman to be president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own
promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she
feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.
Here's an interesting
fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much
sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible?
If a woman's having sex, doesn't that mean a man is having sex at the
same time? And thus, shouldn't men be having just as much sex as women?
NO...because most men hardly get laid, or if they do, it's because they
"got lucky." But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME,
and fuck LOTS AND LOTS of women! It's evolution at work. Women follow
their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know
how to control female emotions.) Women want the top man...so the top
man fucks lots of women. That's right - the sexual revolution, feminism,
etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their
own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems.
Lucky for me!! Heh.
You might say, "But...but...I'm
so nice! I'm a nice guy!" Guess what? That's like a fat chick saying,
"But I'm so smart!" As if those things have anything in the
world to do with sexual attraction!
I'm going to give
some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying
to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of dollars on
all those whores out there without getting any play. (You bitches know
exactly what you're doing, and I'm on to your game!)
- Don't be sexually
judgemental in any way. A woman's worst fear is to be perceived as
a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks
you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won't
- Don't get angry
at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and they need to
trust that you can handle that. It's ok (and necessary) to occasionally
put your foot down...just make sure she knows you are fully in control
- Don't let her
manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose
all respect for you. Always be leading. It's just like dancing - women
hate a man who can't lead.
- When first approaching
a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling like this is just your
little scheme to get close to them, when you really just want something
from them - like sex. (And they're right.) It's important to structure
your body language and conversation so that they honestly don't believe
you want something from them. They should feel like you are about
to leave at any second.
- DON'T TRY TO
IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don't show off. Don't talk about accomplishments
or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove
yourself to her, she loses all interest.
- Don't ignore
her friends. A woman values her friend's opinions more than just about
anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more than what
other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get
everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others,
she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons.
Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave this
way! Women are very different!)
- To get a woman
attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and
feelings. Don't just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry,
and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her
laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why
things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork.
If she gets heated up, she will start touching you...playfully push
her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing
it right. If she gives you that "I can't believe you just said
that" look, do NOT back down, do not say "Oh I'm just kidding"
or anything like that.
- As she gets more
emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will
ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls,
or whatever. The trick is this: Don't take it seriously by giving
it some logical answer! That's right...women lose interest if you
take them seriously!!! It's crazy but that's how they behave. Just
blow it off or misinterpret what she's saying as though she is coming
on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your
head will spin.
- She will start
asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly
find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is
your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and
build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake
later (even if you've kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the
world! Don't make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit.
Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you
have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This
is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like
pretending I'm shy or insecure about something. I know it's fucked
up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes
where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are
- Make sure she
gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging
her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking
her out to see if she is up to snuff. Women don't like to feel like
you are with them only because you can't do any better. They prefer
to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want,
but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different
from all the others. Yeah, I know.
- Move her to different
locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street
to check out some art. The more locations the better.
- Take responsibility
for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long
as she doesn't have to feel like it was "her fault." Make
it YOUR fault. Make it "just happen." She will rationalize
it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use
to flake out on dates at the last minute. Don't get her horny until
you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.
- Keep the woman
always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she
feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels
too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away
(emotionally) and then pull her back in.
- BELIEVE YOUR
OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try to see if
they are bullshit or not... because that is the logical thing to do,
and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU seem
to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you
do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to believe
your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you want
the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)... because
your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically 'impart'
to the chick!
- One more thing...many
guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don't
listen to them, THEY DON'T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they
WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want,
instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And furthermore, a large
part of the female sexual experience IS the inability to admit these
things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance
and being overwhelmed.
If you do things
this way, after a few months practice you WILL get laid like a rock
star. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing,
because they have practiced on lots of women. Ironically, women are
most attracted to the men who are most likely to fuck them and then
dump them on their ass - because those are precisely the men who have
so many other options because they practice on lots of women. That's
why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only
want to fuck them and dump them - because those are the men that they
Women tend to wise
up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice
wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their shit. As they
get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once
they do, they will cheat on him with an exciting fun guy like me. (But
who wants to fuck some old chick in her 30's? That's what beta males
are for! Heh)
Hey, don't blame
me - I didn't make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted
to get laid. And I do :-)
This article was
originally posted on FastSeduction.com.